Do You Feel Tired All The Time? 12 Important Lifestyle Changes to Give You Back Your Zing.

      Do you wake up in the morning and feel too tired to get out of bed? Do you feel wide-awake in the evening and have trouble falling asleep or do you wake in the night several times? This used to be me. I found these simple lifestyle changes were non-negotiable to make sure I got the sleep I needed.
1. Exercise For Energy
It may feel like the right thing to do, but missing your workout to save energy actually works the opposite way. Regular exercise boosts strength and endurance, helps make your cardiovascular system run more efficiently, and delivers feel good endorphins to your brain to list your spirits and your energy. Next time you’re tempted to stay on the couch with a glass of wine, get up and do a quick workout or go for a brisk walk—you won’t regret it.
2. Breakfast Like A King
The food you eat fuels your body, so breakfast like a king and kickstart your metabolism by fueling the fire. Eat a good breakfast that includes lean protein, vegetables and healthy fat. I start the day with a smoothie because I do my exercise first thing. Then I have another larger breakfast post-workout. It might suit you to do this the other way around. Work out what is best for your body, experiment with food and write down how you feel after your meals. Did you feel energised or sluggish? Were you hungry an hour after eating or satisfied for a few hours? You will soon get a feeling for what your body needs.
3. Processed Food Robs You Of Your Get-Up-And-Go
Foods loaded with sugar and simple carbs like processed packaged foods, cause constant blood sugar spikes followed by sharp drops. This causes you fatigue over the course of the day. Kick the processed junk to the kerb, its not worth it, and embrace how good you feel without it. Check out how to get started with clean eating with the nutritional step-by-step information and clean eating recipes in the Online Gym.
4. Water For Focus
Being even slightly dehydrated, as little as 2%, affects your energy levels. Drink a large glass of warm water and lemon in the morning and then drink throughout the day regularly. I find on cold days lemon or ginger and hot water is a really nice pick me up rather than coffee.
5. Iron For Staying Power
Through personal experience I know an iron deficiency can leave you feeling weak, lethargic, irritable, and make you have difficulty concentrating. Less oxygen travels to the muscles and cells, leaving you feeling weak and sleepy. I used to just fall asleep at my desk! Boost your iron intake to reduce your risk of anemia, eat plenty of lean beef, eggs, dark green leafy vegetables, nuts, and peanut butter, and eat these foods, with foods high in vitamin C. Vitamin C improves the iron absorption from your high iron foods.
6. Coffee Fix
If you have no trouble sleeping and enjoy your morning coffee hit, fine, stay with it; coffee even has health benefits. I limit my coffee now to just the weekends as I find I sleep better without it. Listen to your body. As caffeine blocks adenosine, the byproduct of active cells that drives you to sleep as it accumulates, consuming caffeine about six hours prior to bedtime can affect sleep, so cutting it out after lunch is probably a safe bet to ensure a good nights sleep.
7. Clutter Saps Energy
Clutter mentally exhausts you by restricting your ability to focus, especially if you work from home and you can see it. At the end of each day, make sure your work and personal items are organised and put away. Take time to straighten up, fold washing, clear rooms, make lunches and do dishes etc. This will help you have a positive start to your morning.
8. Glass Of Wine To Unwind
A glass of wine or two before bed sounds like a good way to unwind before falling asleep, but it actually works against a restful sleep. Alcohol initially depresses the central nervous system, producing a sedative effect, but then creates a rebound effect as it’s metabolised, which creates an abrupt surge in the adrenaline system, so you wake up usually between 2- 4am after you’ve been drinking. Stop drinking alcohol three to four hours before bedtime to ensure a good sleep. Need to be asleep by 10pm? Stop at 7pm.
9. Screens Before Bed
The glow of a phone, tablet, computer or screen can throw off your body’s natural circadian rhythm by suppressing melatonin, a hormone that helps regulate sleep and wake cycles. Sensitivity to the digital glare of devices can vary from person to person, but I find I sleep better if I avoid my screens (sob) for one to two hours before bedtime.
10. Perfectionism
Mmm…I have to tell myself its good enough otherwise I can keep tweaking my articles, ‘fixing’ my website, changing my recipes or workouts to get them just so. Sometimes you just have to go its good enough and leave it be. Trying to be perfect is impossible, as we all know. It makes you work much harder and longer than necessary. Set goals by all means, but don’t make them so unrealistic that they are difficult or impossible to achieve, and in the end, you get no sense of self-satisfaction of a job well done. I find if I set a time limit for my projects, and then step away when the time is up. Take a time out, even when you don’t want to, and you will realise when you come back that the extra time wasn’t necessary.
11. Night Owl On Weekends
If you want a social life it might not be possible to get to bed by 10pm on the weekends. Staying up late on Friday and Saturday night and then sleeping in Saturday and Sunday morning can lead to difficulty falling asleep Sunday night, and staying asleep. This can lead to a tired you Monday morning. Try to get up at the usual time or close to it, on the weekend mornings and then if you need to, take a power nap of around 20 minutes in the afternoon. This will help you recharge without falling into a deep sleep.
12. No Holiday – No Re-Charge
Use your holiday time as a holiday. It’s tempting to take work with you, especially if you are self-employed, as work is constantly on your mind. Some people, myself included, love their businesses, so keep working even on holiday. Unplugging and allowing yourself to truly unwind allows your mind and body to rejuvenate and restore. If you take a proper break, you will be more productive, creative, relaxed and stronger when you return. Take regular breaks away every 5 weeks, even if it’s just for one day. Make these changes in your life and you will feel energised and ready to face each day with a spring in your step. I know its worked for me.  

7 tips To Clear Your Mind and Refocus When Overwhelmed

Do you ever feel like your brain is in a fog? Do your thoughts resemble an unfinished jigsaw puzzle with a piece missing? Are you unsure of what to do next? This feeling of overwhelm is very common in our world of sensory overload. Some days you just feel like you can’t get much done. Your to-do list is long, and emails and commitments are longer. The pace of your day is fast and hectic, and the constant interruptions not only disrupt your actions but your thought process as well. By the end of the day, you feel stressed and on edge. This happens to me, I can be working away happily and then I become stuck, the words won’t flow, and I become distracted. Does this happen to you? Do you feel overwhelmed and stressed sometimes and unable to focus? Do one or all of the simple, fun tips below, and feel instantly invigorated, your body relaxed, and your mind refocused.
1. Breathe
Close your eyes and take several deep breaths. Lift your shoulders, roll them back, and let them drop. Feel your body relax.
2. Massage
Use natural oils and massage your neck and shoulders. The pressure will soothe you and the scent will invigorate your body and mind.
3. Dance
Put on some upbeat music and go silly. Let it all out. In the words of Taylor Swift “Shake it off, shake it off…"
4. Sing
You know the saying 'sing like no one can hear you'. Let go and belt out that tune. You sound amazing, you really do!
5. Laugh
Watch a funny video clip or share a joke with a friend. Laughter is good for the soul and will lighten your spirit.
6. Meditate
Give your mind a break. Push away your busy thoughts and tune into sensations instead.
7. Walk
It’s been said a lot, but the power of getting away from the busyness, even briefly, does wonders for your mind. Removing yourself from your work and taking a walk outside brings calmness, peace, and clarity when you return.   Do you have any tips that work for you, to add to my list? I’d love to hear your thoughts. Comment below :) ---

How Movement can help your Mind Fitness

When you’re sad or depressed, the thought of exercise can seem too much. You are probably feeling exhausted and overwhelmed most of the time and you just can’t be bothered. The last thing you want to do is get out and move your body on top of all of that stress. Depression can make you freeze in place or panic just thinking about exercise, but you know what I’m going to say: exercise is one of the best things you can do for yourself if you want to be free of that heavy, dark feeling.   If anything else is just too hard, start with walking for thirty minutes every day. If that’s too much, exercise for at least ten minutes at a time. You could break it up into three ten-minute sessions throughout the day—for example, a ten-minute walk, a ten-minute dance around your living room, and then ten minutes doing some resistance training. Don’t think ten minutes isn’t enough so you’ll just do nothing. It is enough for now. Just do it every day at the same time. After you have been doing the ten- or thirty-minute walk for a month, add in some cardio (like running, a spin class, or a seven- to ten-minute HIIT workout) to lift your heart rate, make you sweat, and get you out of your head.   Exercise releases endorphins (the happy hormones) and reduces cortisol (the stress hormone). Exercise as soon as you wake up. If possible, do it before you have time to make excuses. If you exercise first thing, you are more likely to get it done. Exercising as soon as you wake will put you in a positive frame of mind for the day. Just a few minutes will do wonders for your mood. If this is not possible, know that you can choose a time that is manageable and sustainable in your life. Just make sure you move your body in some way every day. Go for a walk in nature, do some yoga, or take a dance class—any activity will help. Physical movement has an immediate effect on your stress levels.   I have found through personal experience that exercise is one of the best things you can do for depression. Movement does the following: • Increases energy levels • Improves sleep • Helps distract your brain from worries and negative thoughts • Boosts your self-esteem, as you are taking an active role in your well-being • Gives you a sense of control when the rest of your life may feel like this is lacking • Releases feel-good brain chemicals to lift your mood and boost your self-esteem • Provides social support and reduces loneliness if you exercise with other people   Movement is central to an integrative approach. If we focus on exercise, we create a ripple effect. If you work out, you’re going to sleep better. If you work out, you’re naturally going to make healthier eating choices because you won’t want to eat junk food when you feel so good. You will drink more water because you want to drink more water. You’re going to be motivated to do better in other areas of your life because you feel fit and energised. Knowing you should exercise isn’t enough; you must do it! If you can only do a little bit right now, then do that. Those little bits will add up. Value is in consistency, and over time you will build a routine that leads to your feeling healthy and strong from the inside out. So just start small, you can do this and you will feel better! X

How Can Gratitude Make Me Mentally Fit?

Trying to be happy all the time is impossible to achieve. Life is not about being happy all the time. Life is a full range of emotions. Often depression is described as numbness and a lack of emotion or feeling. Instead of fighting your sadness and pain, be present and let it wash over and move through you. In doing this, you can release the sadness and make room for hope and peace. Soon those depressed feelings will come less and less often. If you’ve experienced hardship and life hasn’t worked out the way you wanted, it’s easy to feel as if you have nothing to be grateful for.   A beautiful life begins with a sense of gratitude. From experience, I have found that choosing to make gratitude a way of life helps me find the good in the worst experiences, which has the power to change a life.   Every night without fail, I list all the things I am grateful for that day, and I think deeply about them. If you find it hard to think of things to be grateful for, persevere. There is always something to give thanks for, even in the toughest times. You could start by being grateful for the job that puts food on the table and a roof over your head, a warm hug from your child, a loving smile and a kind word from a friend, or a beautiful sunny day. It’s amazing how this simple practice of gratitude shifts your perspective. You will find that you feel at peace and more appreciative of the people in your life. Gratitude helps you shift your energy into focusing on the good things, and in doing so, you will find that more good things will come your way.   Here are some ways to help your gratitude journey: Accept the Truth Let go of the image in your head of how things are supposed to be. Sometimes life just doesn’t want to give you what you want because it has something else in store for you. It will get better. Accept the truth and let go of the life that you expected so you can make the most of the life that’s happening right now. Practice being grateful for what is. To let go is to be grateful for the experiences that have helped you learn and grow and the possibilities that lie ahead. Every experience has value, even depression. You are strong, so keep going and take a positive step forward each day. Be fully present and focus on being grateful for what you have. In turn, you will attract what you want.   Forgive with All Your Heart In forgiveness, we choose happiness over pain and accept others as they are. Acknowledge that what people do has nothing to do with you but more to do with them. The hurt they inflict is because of the hurt they have inside. Forgive them, but in saying that, if it is healthier and safer for you, limit time with them or have no contact. If people are unsupportive of your dreams or they have wronged you, they are allowing you to practice forgiveness and have given you room to believe in yourself even more. Remember, there are wonderful people in the world who will love and support you in both good times and bad.   Live in the Present In depression, we can tend to dwell on the past. Make now the focus of your life. This is the moment; be present. The past is a memory, and the future is a thought. You can think about the past for happy memories and learning, and you can look to the future for purpose and planning, but keep your mind from negatively thinking of the future or the past. The only moment you have is now. This is it. Don’t waste it.   Appreciate Stop and appreciate the little things that bring joy to your life. It doesn’t have to be a lot. Start your gratitude practice with three things to be grateful for each day. You can stay with the three or build up from there. The simple act of being grateful for small things will distance you from negative thoughts, and you will feel less anxious and more relaxed. I always end my meditation with, “I love my life. I am truly blessed.” And I believe I am.   Trust the Journey Everything you learn through mistakes, failures, and life’s tough times is a part of your perfect future. You don’t have to know how things are going to work out. Just know that they will. You are learning skills that will make you stronger and more at ease with life. What I went through helped prepare me to coach and help others through tough times. You may feel as if everything is wrong, but where you are now is exactly where you need to be. This situation was designed to align you with your truth and discover your authentic self. Trust the journey and let yourself move through the pain to come out on the other side.   When we focus on what we don’t have, we lose our joy and then search for it in the wrong places. What we have now is enough. Don’t let everything you want make you forget about everything you already have. Count those blessings every day, and I know that it’s hard, but remember that without your struggles, you wouldn’t have found the strength you have now. The greatest possible healing experience lies in gratitude, and with gratitude comes freedom. X

Welcome to Her Mind!

We all want happiness and good health. We know that we need to look after our physical health, but are you aware that it’s equally important to look after your mental health every day? Both good physical and mental health are extremely important to well-being and happiness. If you struggle with feeling overwhelmed, numb, sad, withdrawn, irritable, or extremely fatigued, you’re not alone. The World Health Organisation estimates that more than 264 million people are affected by depression worldwide and that by 2030 depression will have the greatest global impact of any health issue.   There is often a stigma surrounding people with mental health issues—that they are somehow less than people with good mental health. Depression doesn’t make you any less of a person. It just shows that you may have been internalising your struggle and trying to be strong. If you are struggling with mental health issues you are a courageous and beautiful human being. You have just been trying to be strong for too long.   Today more than ever before, more and more people are talking about their struggles with depression, and the stigma around mental health is starting to lift. It’s hard for people who haven’t experienced depression to understand what it is really like. I understand what you are going through and I want to offer my experience, support, and love. I know you feel an overwhelming feeling of hopelessness. I get that. Don’t despair, as there is always hope if you have faith.   At Her Mind we offer the tools and guidance needed for anyone seeking to understand or overcome depression and/or improve their mind fitness. There is no one-size-fits-all solution to mental health—everyone is made up differently so different approaches work for different people. However, we believe in a four pillar approach of movement, nutrition, lifestyle and living well. We share with you a holistic roadmap that provides tools and information regarding foods to eat to attain good mind health, exercises that improve the mood, lifestyle changes that relieve anxiety and manage stress, and ways to live more emotionally and spiritually.   If you are struggling now, believe there is hope. Start small and change one thing at a time, maybe take a walk each day and meditate for 2-3 minutes. Make small changes. It’s truly gratifying when you are able to stick to even a small intention. Make a note in a small journal each time you do something that helped you feel better and then tick if off—for example, “I went for a walk in nature today” or “I made myself a healthy breakfast.” Feel how this makes your mood lift and your energy increase. If you can do more than one thing, that’s great. However, it can be easy to feel overwhelmed when you are depressed, so if it’s too much, just choose one and tick it off as done. That’s a win.   I hope something on this site resonates with you and helps you or someone you love. I’m reaching out to you. Lots of love is heading your way from Her Mind to you. X